Maybe I was not clear enough in my question.
The problem is not about dead messages, but the format of system messages, sent by Domino server. The mails are being sent with from address in format "dominoservername/domain", what is not valid Internet mail address and is rejected f.ex. by outlook.com.
And the question: is there any way to specify valid internet address for "From" field for Domino system messages? It's possible to specify message content in server configuration, but not other parts of message.